The Holidays: Ill in IL

Well I guess, there truly is no rest for wicked. After a fairly tumultuous holiday season, it is right back to work and the semester is now on the brink of ending.

While the holidays were enjoyable, it is no doubt a time of high anxiety that never seems to dissipate. Ali’s sister Keri fell victim to the airline horrors visited upon man by Nature’s vicious winter onslaught of Denver, which rendered most of the carriers absolutely useless as Christmas approached. Fortunately, the fact that Ali and I were slogging it back to Chicagoland, via a rental car, provided precisely the kind of solution to Keri’s transportation woes. Then it was a matter of securing a one-way return flight so that she get back to her new gig. If only we could all transfer our vacation days when we switch employers. Needless to say, everything worked out for her. As for Ali and me, we had greater struggles left to fight.

Photo: Me and Ali Photo: Me with Quesadilla Maker

Somehow, I came down with some kind of cold or something that left my sinuses jammed like Santa’s gift bag. It started on the ride out there and only got worse as the week progressed, eventually latching onto my beloved towards the end of our stay. Nothing makes the stresses of traveling back and forth on Christmas more enjoyable than being sick. Fortunately, the demands on us, in terms of places to be, were surprisingly more manageable than in the past. Still there is something about the Christmas season that ratchets up the speed and anxiety of each day, ironically when there is less and less light making up each one.

I sometimes wonder if the rights to the twelve days have not been purchased by a pharmaceutical company. I can see it now, a holiday advent calendar with chocolate covered Xanax tablets waiting behind each day’s cardboard door, brought to you by Pfizer, the official sponsor of the Twelve Day’s of Christmas. To hell with the partridge, all he does is cause more anxiety to the recipient anyway!

Photo: My Dad and Me on Couch

Yet, we managed to see many loved ones and enjoy the time spent at home. It is always a treat to see my brothers, at the same time. It happens with less and less frequency. Plus, with my Dad recovering from shoulder and arm surgery it was nice to spend some time with him. The first time I headed back for support, he was in much more pain, not the least of which was aided by a slip in the driveway the day before I left for home a month ago. It is a long recovery, but things have definitely been improving.

Photo: Aaron eyeing his gift

Upon our high-speed return, Ali began a week and half long suffering with all the symptoms I had through our Illinois week, only multiply them by ten. She was miserable and was slow in her return to work.

As for me, it was right back at it and the race to the finish of my first semester in the new place. Considering that everything is done in semesters there, I am coming upon the completion of my first round of courses there. Exams begin at the end of this week.

Next on the docket a recap of my birthday weekend.

For the Irish in Everyone

Well, a belated Happy St. Patrick’s Day to all. Boston or Chicago, it’s a holiday of particular note, most notable in both locales for fantastic parades and cavalcades of drunken louts. Here in the Hub our soon to be Cardinal granted a special dispensation to the flock with regard to eating meat on Friday. Thus, everyone was forgiven for knocking down some corned beef. I heard a priest on the news say he thinks it would relieve the need for so many confessions, to which I thought do you honestly think this reduce the sins associated with the holiday. “Bless me Father for I have sinned, in a word Guinness.” Be that as it may I hoisted a couple of drinks myself and look forward to a few more today as the Terwedow clan convenes for their annual celebration, complete with the corned beef, cabbage, and Ali’s scrumptious soda bread. So enjoy the weekend and heed the words of my favorite cantankerous Irish character, from the film Hard Day’s Night. In one of the all time best lines in the movie, the Samuel Beckett looking little man, in firm reprimand, cracked, “You should be out paradin’ instead of sittin’ here and reading your stupid book!” Doesn’t everyone love a parade?

In other news, here’s best wished to my mother’s speedy recovery. Get well soon. Ali has finally finished all her licensing responsibilities for her programs, with great fanfare. Now she will celebrate with a much deserved vacation to decompress and make headway on the wedding plans. Finally, in response to a request about more information on Keri’s new gig, she is switching to a different law firm, one that is smaller and willing to pay her a whole lot more dough. So, she’ll basically be doing the same kind of work, only with a smaller firm and a different legal specialty. Hopefully, it will be a fantastic fit.

Happy Holidays

Amidst the rush of Christmas, with all its haste and mayhem, I did not get to wish everyone a wonderful holiday. So, here’s to wishing everyone happy holidays, no matter which days you recognize. Hopefully, those that have past were full of joy and merriment and may there be much mirth on those to come. Catch you all in the New Year, when I am back in New England live and refreshed!